haha what a great post! Hubby and I aren't strangers to this world but I do have to say once we got married, its not as often persay but that's his fault in all aspects. He's heavily influenced by his friends and he's supposed to be going to NOLA for a bach party in May...if he reaches his goal. I know that when they went down there for his bach party, things happened - I'm not stupid and hubby isn't that great of a liar. So knowing this, hubby has a goal with me in terms of sex before he goes off with this group of guys who all don't care if they cheat, flirt, etc with women because they don't like their wives. We'll see what happens!
My husband and I both actively enjoy sex after marriage. It slowed down a little, just because life is so dang busy, and there are days we are just both exhausted, but it has never stopped. Only lately have we hit small dry spell, but only because i'm eight weeks along and have felt more nauseous and exhausted than I have felt good. Hopefully it will pick back up, because I, for one, miss it. lol
I wish we could be more "active." Hubby works the midnight shift 5 days a week so we don't really see each other at all during the week except when I kiss him goodbye in the mornings. Then to try to make extra money, he works half a day on Saturday so he is usually pooped on the weekends and uses them to try to catch up on sleep.Hopefully it won't be this way forever, but for now it is what it is :)
I love you. That is all.
That gingerbread picture, Oh-mah-gah! I love it! lol You crack me up. I think you and I are just alike when it comes to sex. I have no issue with it, or talking about it. I'm actually a bit of a perv. lol I think "like a guy" a lot of the time. As someone who has been with the same man for almost 10 years. We have definitely hit dry spells at times, for various reasons. & I've noticed that it can get a little monotonous, BUT like you said, you have to actively keep it interesting, even if it's a different position, something new, or even doing it at a different time of the day/night or in a different place. ;) Learn to embrace the quickies when that may be all you can get for the time being & also don't let the foreplay stop. That happened to us for a while. It was just like going through the motions, still enjoyable & felt good, just not the same...Although, one thing I'm a little awkward on sometimes is dirty talk. Sometimes I'm just like "uhhh...."My poor hubby though, I always want it. Even when we're done & he's tuckered out, I'm all, "round 2?!" lol. & instead of "Let's Talk About Sex", "Sexy Noises Turn Me On" by Salt N Pepa is what popped into my head. lol
Zach and I don't have sex right now. We do other things, but sex is not one of them. Since we're not married yet, we don't want to take any chances, and we're too paranoid that any form of birth control won't work that one time, so yeah. But don't you worry, once we're married, I'm sure sex will not be in short supply. Not with the way Zach thinks. ;)
Thank you!! I don't think I've ever read about a blogger talking about sex and I always wondered if it was a "blog rule". Not that I like those but ya know! We have an active sex life. Even if I'm not in the mood at the time, I know it's important to our relationship so I'll do it. And that generally makes the mood ;) I don't blog about it though because of family. I'd love a sequel, hell even more than one!
Holy bologna. I just died.