I like lemonade.

I am actually writing this post on behalf of  one of my bestest best friends. We are extremely similar and a lot alike in all aspects of our lives. We've married our soulmates, love girly things like getting our hair done, nails, clothes, makeup... the list could go on forever. We love wine. We are extremely optomistic and positive. We strive to be the best we can, both in and out of our marriage. You get the point.
Anywho... This past Sunday she texted me a very disturbing story about some things going on with her in-laws. Now I'm not naming any names, but this hurt me that her family would be talking about her like this, that I felt obligated to talk about it.
Synopsis: Her gram in law reads her blog every day. Which at first I thought was great and really cool. Untillll.... her grams felt disrespected on the blog and printed out posts where my friend mentions 'inlaws family.' Her gram confronted my friends husband  her gram is their landlord and lives right next door when he went to bring over the rent check while my friend was still at home next door. My friend didn't know what her hubs was doing after about an hour cause all he was doing was bringing over the money. Naturally, she got worried. What if something happened to the grandma or her hubs? My friend called her hub a couple times to see if all was ok. After he got home, she received an email from gram which in a nut shell said: that her grandson deserves better than my friend, and how dare she call him when he's with her... amongst other extremely rude accusations. My friend knew since her gram reads her blog every day, that she'd have to write something positive showing she wasn't affected for today. And she did just that. And I couldn't be any more proud to call her my friend.
I can't believe that anybody, let alone family and friends, could be so rude and horrible towards somebody over their thoughts! This is her blog.  Her little piece of the webz where she could be herself. Not anybody elses. Any guy would be lucky and privelaged to have her as their wife. And I know her hubs feels that way as well. I read her blog every day and cannot for the life of me, remember a post where she disrespects his family. She is just not that person! She's overly positive and happy, and would never purposefully write something disrespectful or even slightly hurtful for that matter.
So ladies and gents  if there are any of you out there reading this the moral of this story is: When life gives you lemons- make as much lemonade as you can!! There are going to be horrible, rude, mean, over dramatic, selfish, and drama causing people out there that just want to bring you down to their nasty level. Don't do it!  Be yourself!! Don't be somebody you aren't because somebody has wrongly judged you.
And to my friend: Don't you DARE change one bit. You are perfect just the way you are :) LOVE YOU <3